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Taming
the 2 a.m. Terrors
Every soloist has experienced them -- the staring-at-the-ceiling
moments at 2 a.m. when you really want to go to sleep, but your mind is racing
with pesky questions such as: "Why did I ever think this was a good idea?"
or "Will I ever work again?"
Having experienced my fair share of such nights in the early years of my
business, I want to assure you that as your business matures, the panic of
making a living does subside. However, sleepless nights might still creep in
from time to time. How to turn off the noisy mind? Here are three ways to
keep the sleep thieves at bay:
1. Join the company.
Sometimes when I'm tossing and turning during those predawn hours, I almost laugh
out loud, because I recognize I'm not alone: somewhere in some time zone -- perhaps
nearby, perhaps many miles away -- I'm certain there's at least one entrepreneur
who is also sleeplessly pondering a giant To-Do list, wondering how to appease
a fussy client, figuring out a new marketing campaign, rewriting that Web copy,
or mentally fixing cash flow. Sometimes
that realization is enough to bring me peace of mind -- or at least provide perspective
that I'm in good company in facing such challenges.
2. Be self-aware.
While sleeplessness nights are often caused by worry, physical elements often
play a part. Alcohol, caffeine, or sugar can fuel late-night
work sessions or socializing -- but they can also be slow to leave your system and
keep you awake for hours longer than you desire. Similarly, exercise can
either pep you up or drain you to exhaustion. Develop your awareness about
factors that may contribute to the nocturnal mental clamor.
3. Box it up.
One of my favorite techniques to silence the worries and internal babble
is to visualize a collection of very beautiful boxes in which I store all
my cares each night. I lift up each lid and place within it a certain set
of concerns, knowing that each is securely stashed away until the light of
day. In my mind, the boxes are beautifully detailed in brocade and ribbon,
but most pleasing of all, they have very snug lids. When the last lid slips
on, I luxuriate in the peaceful quiet that descends on my mind.
Sleep is a crucial ingredient for solo business success, since we need the energy
to face multiple challenges each day. In addition, sleep deprivation erodes good
judgment, and poor decisions can lead to situations causing even greater stress.
It pays to plan your sleep as carefully as you plan other parts of your day.
-- Terri Lonier
Founder, WorkingSolo.com
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